Welcome to the PledgeManager for Unf*ck Your Kink!
If you missed our campaign, don't dismay! Just choose an option below.

What turns you on? Dr. Faith Harper wants you to leave shame behind and focus on the positive (the sex positive).

About the Book

What is kink, anyway? And is it bad?? (Spoiler alert: No!)

Unf*ck Your Kink is all about debunking myths, explaining the science behind why we like what we like, and discussing how to engage safely, shamelessly, and satisfyingly in BDSM, pornography, fantasies, role-play, and fetishes.

Dr. Faith G. Harper—sexologist, therapist, and author of bestselling titles like Unfuck Your Intimacy and Unfuck Your Blow Jobs—tackles the whys, whats, and how-tos of the very wide range of human erotic experience.

Whatever gets you off, there's a way for you to feel good while feeling good about yourself. 

Topics and advice include:

  • Advice from an actual therapist about how to have great, non-boring sex
  • Communication strategies so everyone is on the same sexy page
  • Tricks for identifying kink-shaming bullsh*t and going in the other direction
  • Common questions answered about BDSM and fetishes
  • Tips on STI prevention and safety
  • Sample consent contracts
  • Resources for clinicians and coaches
  • A sex-positive reading list

…And other reminders that there is nothing wrong with sex between consenting adults, whether it’s vanilla, spicy, or your other favorite flavor.

About the Rewards

Here's a peek at what we're offering for rewards:


About the Author


Dr. Faith G. Harper, LPC-S, ACS, ACN is a bad-ass, funny lady with a PhD. She’s a licensed professional counselor, board supervisor, certified sexologist, and applied clinical nutritionist with a private practice and consulting business in San Antonio, TX. She has been an adjunct professor and a TEDx presenter, and is proud to be a woman of color and uppity intersectional feminist. She is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of the book Unf*ck Your Brain and many other popular zines and books on subjects such as anxiety, depression, boundaries and grief. She is available as a public speaker and for corporate and clinical trainings.

Subscribe to the Unf*ck Your Brain newsletter to get a discount on her books and zines.

About the Publisher


Microcosm Publishing & Distribution is an independent book publishing house and distributor headquartered in Portland, Oregon. Since 1996, we've been bringing you tools you can use to change your life and then the world—whether that means trauma recovery, growing vegetables in your tiny apartment, starting a music scene in your town, fixing up old bikes, making your own zines, or sparking a revolution. At any given moment, various members of our staff of 25 can be found organizing documents and spreadsheets, moving boxes in our warehouse, shipping your orders, protesting in the streets, reading books, having uncomfortable conversations, and getting excited about making the world a better place. You can stay in touch with us via our weekly-ish email newsletter.

Available Rewards:

$10USD + Shipping

Just the eBook

Your very own digital copy of “Unf*ck Your Kink”

$15USD + Shipping

Just the Book

You very own paperback copy of “Unf*ck Your Kink”

$16USD + Shipping

Unf*ck Your Shame

Take pride in who you are (and what you like) with a paperback copy of "Unf*ck Your Kink" and a vinyl sticker.

$25USD + Shipping

Monster Lover

Monster fckers rejoice! This tier includes a paperback copy each of “Unfck Your Kink” and the smutty, spine-tingling “Monster Lovin’”

$25USD + Shipping

Queering Your Kink

A paperback copy each of “A Tight Squeeze,” the sexy, queer, t4t-focused short story collection, and “Unf*ck Your Kink”

$30USD + Shipping

Unf*ck Your Needs

Unfck all of your needs and learn how to communicate them in any kind of relationship with a paperback copy each of "Unfck Your Kink" and "Unf*ck Your Intimacy"

$32USD + Shipping

Kink From Scratch

Improve your communication and add some spice to your relationship with a paperback copy each of “Unf*ck Your Kink” and “Sex From Scratch”

$48USD + Shipping

Love Your Kink (and Yourself)

A paperback copy each of “Unf*ck Your Kink” and “Bang!,” the inclusive guide to self love (plus a sexy, thematic enamel pin!)

$101USD + Shipping

All of It!

Unf*ck all the things! This kink-tastic tier includes each physical item offered in the other tiers.

OK! You're pledging !

One last step to go!

Want an invite?

Share your email, we will send you an invite!

Already a PledgeManager Backer?

If you're already have a PledgeManager account from another project, just sign in using the button below to join the project.

Login To Join
Need help?